On NBC’s Parent Toolkit – “Second Chances – Teaching Children about Forgiveness”

 

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In this busy holiday season, tensions and conflicts can arise easily. And old wounds can resurface as we encounter family and friends we may not see regularly. This is an ideal time to think about how you are encouraging forgiveness with your family members. Read the following and gain some simple ideas. Put them into practice and you can experience the freedom that comes with repairing harm and then, letting go. Wishing you and your loved ones a season filled with peace, love and joy!

Second Chances – Teaching Children about Forgiveness by Jennifer Miller begins…

“Aaron crashed into me on the playground. It really hurt but I forgave him. It was an accident,” said my son with the resignation of a wise old man rather than the eight year old he actually is. It struck me as strange since we don’t often hear the language of forgiveness. And maybe that’s because it may sound too lofty, too significant. “I forgive you,” seems only appropriate after a heinous act. And when a tragedy like the mass shooting in Paris does take place, we may talk about it as unforgivable. But forgiveness can be freely given anytime, anywhere and for the smallest of actions. Read full article.

 

 

Around the World, We Celebrate Light – The Solstice

Celebrating the Solstice 2014 illust by Jennifer Miller 1So the shortest day came, and the year died,
And everywhere down the centuries of the snow-white world
Came people singing, dancing,
To drive the dark away.
They lighted candles in the winter trees;
They hung their homes with evergreen;
They burned beseeching fires all night long
To keep the year alive,
And when the new year’s sunshine blazed awake
They shouted, reveling.
Through all the frosty ages you can hear them
Echoing behind us – Listen!!
All the long echoes sing the same delight,
This shortest day,
As promise wakens in the sleeping land:
They carol, fest, give thanks,
And dearly love their friends,
And hope for peace.
And so do we, here, now,
This year and every year.
Welcome Yule!!

The Shortest Day by Susan Cooper

This Tuesday, December 22, the shortest day of the year, will mark the turning from dark to an increase in sunlight. In the Northern Hemisphere, it is the coldest time of year and in the Southern, it marks the Summer Solstice. The traditions that recognize this passage seem to touch numerous cultures around the world and date back to ancient times in which the Mayan Indians, ancient Romans, Scandinavians and others celebrated. Years ago, my own neighborhood friends would gather on this day, say some words of gratefulness for the gift of light in our lives, and each person would contribute a stick or evergreen branch to the fire. This tradition has remained in my memory as one of the most sacred I have attended. As we approach this passing of dark to light, I reflect on the themes cultures throughout the world have recognized and consider how we can learn from their wisdom and reinforce those themes in our own family.

So this Sunday evening at our typical family dinner, I will light a candle and talk with my family about the following themes. I’ve included questions that we will ask and offer them to you as well to consider around your own family dinner table.

Theme: Connection
Our connection to one another during this time is one of the most valuable. Ironically savoring our moments with our loved ones can get buried under a mound of anxiety, expectations and commitments. When it comes to focusing on our appreciation for one another during this passage from dark to light, we can be made aware, if we stop long enough to notice, that we are more alike than different. Numerous religions, nations, indigenous cultures and popular culture celebrate light with a wide variety of rituals and traditions. We can enter into our own celebrations, whatever our traditions may be, with the awareness that we are inter-connected and inter-dependent with one another and our environment.

Question for our Family Dinner: What are ways that we are connected to people from places far from us in the world? If there have been disagreements among family and friends, how do we remain connected to those individuals?

Theme: Relationship of Light and Dark
Darkness has long been a symbol for emotional turmoil and violence in the world. The darkness seems to hold fear and danger but with the light of day, the perspective changes dramatically to one of hope and possibility. Moving from short, gray days to lighter, brighter days can help remind us that there is always another chance to make a better decision. There’s always an opportunity to be who we really aspire to being.

Question for our Family Dinner: Is there sadness, fear, disappointment or other darkness you want to leave behind? How can you let it go and begin again? What hopes do you have for the new year?

Theme: Gratefulness for the Natural World
It is humbling to step back and watch the changing of the seasons unfold. In ancient times, people feared that the lack of light would continue. They worried that if they did not revere the Sun God, “he” may move further away from their days. Take this moment in time to appreciate the sun, the moon, the trees, the birds and all of the natural world around us that profoundly influences our lives.

Question for our Family Dinner: What aspects of nature influence you regularly? What do you appreciate about the environment you encounter each day?

Theme: Rebirth, Purification and Forgiveness
In ancient Rome during the solstice, wars stopped, grudges were forgiven and slaves traded places with their masters. Today, the theme of rebirth and forgiveness is carried out in a diverse range of religious and cultural practices. The burning of wood to create light in the darkness also symbolizes that we can let go of old wounds or poor choices and begin again. For children, it’s a critical lesson to learn that one choice does not determine who they are. There is always the light of a new day to offer a chance for forgiving the old and creating the new.

Question for our Family Dinner: Are there hurts that you are holding onto from the past? How can you heal and move on? Have you disappointed yourself? With the burning of a candle, can you imagine those disappointments burning into the ash, forgiven, and offering you a new chance?

There is a silent calm that comes over me when I light a candle or watch the flames rise in our fireplace. That calm gives me the space to reflect on the meaning of this time of year and connects me to the many individuals and cultures today and of generations past that have recognized this passage. May you find ways to appreciate and focus on the people most important to you during this emergence from dark to light.

Reference
The Shortest Day by Susan Cooper retrieved on 12-17-14 from http://wintersolsticemusic.com/solstice-traditions/winter-solstice-poetry-celtic-mid-winter-poetry.htm.

Originally posted on December 14, 2014.

On the Ashoka Changemaker Education Series – “How Can We Help Children Develop Gratitude?”

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Thanks Ashoka Changemaker Education for sharing my article on Medium! Check it out…

How can we help children develop gratitude?
If you worry and you can’t sleep, just count your blessings instead of sheep and you’ll fall asleep counting your blessings.

– Count your Blessings, Irving Berlin’s White Christmas, 1942

It’s true. People who think about what they are grateful for do sleep better at night. Psychologists have done research on gratefulness and found that it increases people’s health, sense of well-being and their ability to get more and better sleep at night. One study from a leading researcher on gratitude at the University of California, Davis found that thankfulness can prevent a second heart attack in patients that have already… Read full article.

Learning about the Major World Holidays – Their Uniqueness and Commonalities

Children Celebrating Around the World by Jennifer MillerBecause of the numerous holidays celebrated through the fall and winter months, it is an ideal time to discuss how people celebrate around the world – both the uniqueness of traditions and also the many commonalities. I was struck by the number of similar themes and symbols when I did the research for the following world holiday facts. Most notably, the major holidays celebrate light in the darkness, show gratitude for food, family and life and pause for reflection or prayer. I was so enriched by learning about the beautiful traditions of celebrations around the world. I hope you will take a moment to share these with your family. Happy holidays!

Christmas
Cultural or Religious Origin: Christianity and Secular
Purpose: To celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ, believed by Christians to be the son of God. For the non-religious, the purpose is to give gifts, receive gifts from Santa Claus and celebrate with loved ones.
Symbols/Practices: Santa Claus who was originally named after St. Nicolas, a bishop in Turkey, who was a giver of gifts to children. The evergreen tree was originally a German tradition. The star is the guiding light that led to the animal manger where the baby was born.
Traditions: Presents are delivered in secret by Santa Claus on Christmas Eve while families are sleeping. Families and friends exchange gifts.
http://www.history.com/topics/christmas

Hanukkah
Cultural or Religious Origin: Judaism
Purpose: To celebrate a miracle that one day’s worth of oil lasted for eight days in the temple.
Symbols/Practices: For eight days, Jews light a special candleholder called a menorah.
Traditions: On Hanukkah, many Jews also eat special potato pancakes called latkes, sing songs, and spin a top called a dreidel to win chocolate coins, nuts or raisins. Families also give one gift each of the eight days.
http://www.jewfaq.org/holiday7.htm

Kwanzaa
Cultural or Religious Origin: African-American
Purpose: Started in the United States to celebrate African heritage for seven days based on African harvest festivals and focused on seven African principles including family life and unity. The name means “first fruits” in Swahili.
Symbols/Practices: Participants wear ceremonial clothing and decorate with fruits and vegetables.
Traditions: They light a candleholder called a kinara and exchange gifts.
http://www.history.com/topics/holidays/kwanzaa-history

Chinese New Year
Cultural or Religious Origin: China
Purpose: Celebrate the new year.
Symbols/Practices: Silk dragon in a grand parade is a symbol of strength. According to legend, the dragon hibernates most of the year, so people throw firecrackers to keep the dragon awake. Each new year is symbolized by a Zodiacal animal that predicts the characteristics of that year. 2016 will be the year of the monkey.
Traditions: Many Chinese children dress in new clothes. People carry lanterns and join in a huge parade led by a silk dragon. People take time off of work for seven days and celebrate the feast with family.
http://www.history.com/topics/holidays/chinese-new-year

Diwali
Cultural or Religious Origins: Hindu, India
Purpose: The festival of lights honors Lakshmi, India’s goddess of prosperity. It celebrates the inner light that protects all from spiritual darkness.
Symbols/Practices: Millions of lighted clay saucers with oil and a cotton wick are placed near houses and along roads at night.
Traditions: Women float these saucers in the sacred Ganges River, hoping the saucers will reach the other side still lit. Farmers dress up their cows with decorations and treat them with respect. The farmers show their thanks to the cows for helping the farmers earn a living.
http://kids.nationalgeographic.com/explore/diwali/

La Posada
Cultural or Religious Origins: Mexico and parts of Central America, Christian
Purpose: Reenacts the journey Joseph and Mary took to find shelter to give birth to their son, Jesus. It is a festival of acceptance asking, “Who will receive the child?”
Symbols/Practices: Candle light, song, prayer, actors dressing as Mary and Joseph
Traditions: People celebrate through song and prayer doing musical re-enactments of the journey. In Mexico and many parts of Central America, people celebrate La Posada in church during the nine days before Christmas. It is a reenactment of the journey Joseph and Mary took to find shelter before the birth of their child, Jesus
http://gomexico.about.com/od/festivalsholidays/a/posadas.htm

Boxing Day
Cultural or Religious Origins: United Kingdom, Australia, Canada, New Zealand, Holland
Purpose: To share gratitude and give to the poor.
Symbols/Practices: Alms boxes were placed in churches to collect donations for the poor.
Traditions: Servants were given the day off as a holiday. Charitable works are performed. And now major sporting events take place.
http://www.whychristmas.com/customs/boxingday.shtml

Ramadan and Eid al-Fitr
Cultural or Religious Origin: Islam, Muslim
Purpose: An entire month is spent re-focusing on Allah (God) and participating in self-sacrifice to cleanse the spirit.
Symbols/Practices: The crescent moon and a star are shown to indicate a month of crescent moons in the night sky. Participants pray daily in mosques. On Eid al-Fitr, they break the fast by dressing in their finest clothing, decorating homes with lights and decorations and giving treats to kids.
Traditions: Not only do celebrants abstain from food, drink, smoke, sexual activity and immoral behavior during the days of Ramadan, they also work to purify their lives by forgiving others and behaving and thinking in positive, ethical ways. They break their fast each day by eating with family and friends after sunset. Breaking the fast on Eid al-Fitr involves making contributions to the poor and gratefulness.
http://www.history.com/topics/holidays/ramadan

Omisoka
Cultural or Religious Origin: Japan
Purpose: This is the Japanese New Year.
Symbols/Practices: Thoroughly cleaning house to purify it.
Traditions: People remove any clutter and clean their homes to purify them for the new year. They have a giant feast with traditional foods. There’s a national talent competition. Bells ring at midnight and people go to pray at Shinto shrines.
http://www.kidzworld.com/article/26414-omisoka-japanese-new-year

St. Lucia Day
Cultural or Religious Origin: Sweden
Purpose: To honor a third-century saint who was known as a “bearer of light” through dark Swedish winters.
Symbols/Practices: With a wreath of burning candles worn on their heads, girls dress as Lucia brides in long white gowns with red sashes.
Traditions: The Lucia brides wake up their families by singing songs and bringing them coffee and twisted saffron buns called “Lucia cats.”

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For more, learn about the Winter Solstice and the related multiple celebrations enjoyed around the world.

Around the World, We Celebrate Light – Solstice Traditions

Holiday Helpers

Holiday Helpers by Jennifer Miller

Giving your Children the Chance to Contribute to One of the Busiest Times of the Year

Family life is typically busy with school, extracurriculars, parents’ work demands and more. But add a series of holidays to the already busy schedule and the resulting stress can reach a fever pitch. As I compare notes with friends, we seem to be more accident prone and our kids are all taking turns coming down with colds and flus. So there’s an obvious response to the question, “Could you use extra help?” Yes!

What if you could find extra help among your children to add to the joy and reduce the stress of the season? What if you could build social and emotional skills like cooperation in the process? What if it took a just a little bit of proactive time to reap these benefits over the entire season? Intrigued? If you realize that all humans are motivated by three emotional needs – a sense of autonomy, belonging and competence – you can build on that knowledge, meeting those needs, preventing misbehaviors and getting help with a little discussion upfront. Here’s how to gain holiday helpers.

Discuss why the season produces opportunities for help.
Focus first on the joy that comes with celebrating winter holidays. But along with that joy of the moment comes planning and preparation. You might ask, “Do you notice that you feel more stressed or upset this time of year?” “Do you notice that we have more to get done than usual?” Give them time to consider these questions and offer responses and examples. Because of the added pressures, this is the time when you will enjoy these experiences more together if you are working as a team.

Ask open-ended questions.
Mention a few of the tasks that need to be accomplished over the coming month such as going out to purchase gifts for family members or cleaning the house. Ask each child, “In what ways can you help?”

Kids write or draw helping behaviors.
Have a poster board and markers at the ready. Ask each child draw a picture of himself. Then next to the picture, have them write their ideas for helping. The more your kids can write and draw themselves, the better. If you are assisting with the writing, keep language simple and brief.

Then add one stressful challenge you find important.
Consider which behavioral challenge you would most like to address with this exercise. Pick one that may be a daily annoyance and add to the stress of a situation. In conversation with other parents, for example, I often hear that sibling fighting while Mom is trying to cook dinner is a common problem. Raise that one challenge with your kids and ask for their ideas on how that time of day and their role in it could improve. What could they do in that situation? Set the expectation that each one will focus only on his/her own behavior and contributions. If a child begins to blame another, refocus her attention on her own behavior. You might say, “You can only control yourself. So how can you act when your sister is trying to engage you in an argument to stop it from going any further?” Add that helping behavior to your poster.

Practice through interactive modeling.
Tell your child what you will model and why.
“Let’s practice how we can stop a fight when it’s just beginning. What would you say that might
get your sister upset?” And to sister, “What would you say or do that might make your sister
upset?”
Model the behavior.
Role play a constructive response. “I don’t want to argue. I will move over here to play.”
Ask your son or daughter what he/she noticed.
“What did you notice about what I did to avoid a fight?”
Ask your each child to model what he/she will do and say.
Your child might show you how she moves her toys to another part of the room and tells her
sister she is moving and doesn’t want to fight. Give all siblings a chance to practice.
Provide feedback.
Point out what they did well. “I appreciate that you moved yourself across the room in addition to
what you said to her. I think that could work!”

Remind.
Hang up your holiday helpers poster and use it as you go through your daily routine. Before you encounter typical struggles, point to it and use a few brief words to remind of their helping behavior agreements.

Notice!
It can be a hectic time so positive behaviors can easily go unnoticed. But if you want to encourage helping behaviors, it’s critical that you reinforce them. Instead of quickly moving through a routine without incident and moving on, a simple statement to tell your children you noticed their cooperation can go a long way toward promoting more of the same. “I notice you carried packages from the car to the house without my prompting. That’s a big help!”

You may consider other special occasions when you want to utilize this “holiday helpers” method. When our sitter watched a group of children so that the adults could go out to dinner, we worked on a poster together before we left to help the sitter and to get all of the kids on the same helpful team. This whole process can take the same amount of time as a cartoon episode on television but can yield lasting outcomes. Instead of being passive recipients of the events and gifts of the season, kids can be significant contributors. They can think through and offer ways to be helpful. And they can follow through in cooperating and taking responsibility with your recognition and support. No matter what holidays you celebrate this season, you can use that kind of help!

 

For additional ideas for easing the stress with kids during the winter holiday season, check out these:

Winter Holiday Tools #1: Hot Chocolate Break

Winter Holiday Tools #2: The Quiet Hour

Winter Holiday Tools #3: Snowball Goodbye

 

 

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Redefining Giving for Our Family


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How Can Giving Become Personal and Meaningful?

Several weeks ago, my husband, son and I were zipping to the mailbox to drop in a few letters before going downtown to a symphony concert. My husband pulled up and I hopped out of the car to mail the letters. As I approached the mailbox, I noticed a woman nearby in a wheelchair. I looked at her and she beckoned to me. I walked over knowing my family was waiting in the car. She merely asked for my prayers. “I don’t want your money, dear.” she said. “Will you just pray for me?” “I will.” I responded somewhat shaken by her simple request.

Just around the corner, the local grocery store had an outdoor booth selling hot food. Motioning to my family I would need a moment, I bought her a hot dog, some chips and a bottle of water. I brought the food to her and she began crying. I noticed a child’s book sitting on her lap and asked her about it. “My Granddaughter lives down the street.” she said. “I like to go and read to her.” “My name is Katie.” she said. And I offered her my hand and introduced myself.

I couldn’t help becoming emotional too. It felt as if, in that brief interaction, we had made a lasting connection that is still palpable to me. I got back in the car with my family. And we began asking questions trying to understand. “What was her story?” “What was her relationship with her family living just down the road?” “What did she do in her life? What jobs? What loves?” “How did she end up in the wheelchair?” “And how did she become homeless?” Through our brief meeting, she opened the door to our curiosity about a full life lived. With that connection made, we knew that we had only seen tiny clues hinting at a deeper, richer story.

After exhausting our questions, we made up possible answers. “Maybe she was born requiring a wheelchair.” “Maybe her grown children don’t have the money to support her.” And we won’t know. We’ve looked for her and haven’t seen her since. But she gave such a gift to our family that day and it was the best of kind of gift, one that was deeply felt, a raised awareness about our giving. We gained access to her gentle nature, her desire for connection and her humble request.

It gave rise to a larger dialogue with my son about giving. “How come you give to some people on the street and not to others?” my son wanted to know. Yes, how come? Long ago living in an urban environment, my husband and I had agreed on how to handle people asking for money on the street. We were going to give to organizations to help those in need in a more strategic way which, in theory, sounds very practical. But our decision was sterile and this encounter and our son’s question shone a light on our giving practice. We would give to organizations through a payroll deduction and we only need consider it once per year. And though both my husband and I are in service, mission-driven careers, there remained a distance with our monetary giving. 

Here are some simple ideas for giving that can make the experience more personal and meaningful for you and your family.

Discuss when you give. If you write an check to an organization, make sure that it’s not a solitary event. Talk about it with your family members. Learn about the services provided by the organization. Ask questions. Most importantly, consider the stories of the individuals who may be helped by your donation.

Give where you live. My Mom has made a practice of lining up envelopes in her purse with twenty dollar bills. When someone is kind to her in a service role such as a waiter, a cashier or a garbage collector, she gives them an envelope. She always has her donations at the ready and she gives them to the people she encounters in her everyday existence. The reaction is often one of shock and also sincere appreciation. On occasion, she has heard later that it went toward paying the rent or buying a holiday gift. But mostly she walks away and never hears about how it has impacted a life. But she knows she is using her money to directly impact her community. This holiday season, we have connected with a neighborhood organization through which we will deliver gifts to local families and visit with home-bound seniors. Find out what opportunities exist for you close to home.

Replace what you use. My Dad has purchased tree seedlings over the years, thousands of them. He’s a writer. And he knows that the paper he has used could fell a forest. So he is replacing what he’s used. You could fund a well and help replace your water consumption. Asking the question, “What resources do we use in our daily lives and how can we replace them?” can lead you on a meaningful path for giving.

Katie had changed our thinking. Now we had to answer the question, “How could we make our giving more meaningful, more personal?” Since the encounter, we have taken steps in that direction such as giving our dollars in person and offering our hands and energies in addition to our funds. And it’s already brought real individuals into our lives who expose our son to diverse perspectives and lifestyles – the opportunity to build authentic empathy. But we keep that question at the fore when considering our giving. How can we continue to make giving more personal, more meaningful? For us, it’s a work in progress. The hot meal hardly compensated Katie for the gifts she gave our family, that continue to enrich our lives with new questions to help us become wiser and more deeply connected to our community.

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20 Ideas for Involving Kids in Thanksgiving Preparations

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To journey without being changed

is to be a nomad.
To change without journeying
is to be a chameleon.
To journey and to be transformed
by the journey
is to be a pilgrim.

– Mark Nepo

With a little forethought and supply gathering, you can set your kids on a mission to contribute to your Thanksgiving. Not only will they be entertained but also they will meaningfully enrich your celebration. Here are my top twenty ideas.

Food Preparations
Young children:

  • add ingredients to a bowl and stir
  • wash vegetables, throwing them into a pot of water
  • keep the kitchen timer and telling you when the time is up
  • add the marshmallow topping to the sweet potatoes (though there may be a few missing!)

Older children:

  • slice vegetables and arrange on a platter – or boil or steam
  • use the mixer with mashed potatoes
  • get items out of the refrigerator to place for you on the counter
  • move final dishes out to the table for serving

Table Setting
Young children:

  • put placemats and napkins at each place setting
  • put silverware on the napkins with some modeling first (adult do the knives)
  • take condiments or salt and pepper to the table

Older children:

  • place glasses at each place setting with some modeling first
  • fill glasses with ice and/or get drinks for individuals
  • place or move chairs

Decorations/Environment

  • send to the yard or go on a neighborhood walk with Grandpa to collect kindling for the fire or collect fall leaves for decorating the table
  • put out construction paper and markers or crayons and make decorations to add to a centerpiece on the table. Have pictures of the first Thanksgiving available for inspiration

Add to the True Meaning of Thanksgiving

  • lay out paper and markers or crayons for making fall leaves of all colors. Make enough that each person can write some quality they appreciate about another person Happy Thanksgiving illus by Jennifer Millerat the celebration.
  • brainstorm and write out the things they are grateful for and display them on the table or in the house.
  • outline a foot on colored paper and cut it out and write a fact that is known or a question about your ancestors or family history. See if you can pave the way from the table to your front door. Allow it to spur discussions with relatives about your lineage.
  • research and learn more about the first Thanksgiving, http://www.scholastic.com/scholastic_thanksgiving/. Take it one step further and try and talk from the perspective of one of the first Thanksgiving participants.

“Promoting a Spirit of Gratefulness in Kids…” on NBC’s Parent Toolkit

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Check out my article “Promoting a Spirit of Gratefulness in Kids – A Tale of Two Letters” on today’s NBC Parent Toolkit Blog. It recounts an experience with my own son, relates it to the research on raising grateful kids and offers a number of simple ways to promote gratitude. Why should we be concerned with promoting gratefulness in our kids? It can contribute to a child’s sense of well-being, desire to contribute to family life today and hope for their future. Why not seize the opportunity of Thanksgiving to begin a thankfulness ritual or routine in your family? Here’s how the article begins and I hope you’ll visit Parent Toolkit for the full article. I am so grateful for your participation in this community of parents who value social and emotional learning! Happy Thanksgiving!

Promoting a Spirit of Gratefulness in Kids – A Tale of Two Letters

In the past week, my eight year old son E has been busily writing letters and researching their content. “What excellent academic practice!” I might typically think. But in this case, I did not. Instead the “Dear Santa” letter followed by “Dear Grandma, Mom, Dad and Guy-down-the street, I want the following presents…” turned my happy boy into a grumpy one. I noticed his mind was consumed with what he wanted and didn’t have. He was coming down with a pretty intense case of the “Galloping Greedy Gimmies” as the Berenstain Bears so aptly refer to it. And I began to worry that it might turn into a seasonal trend over the coming weeks.

I was hoping a family ritual would protect him against the “gimmies.” Each November, we take time out in the evenings as a family before bedtime to talk about what we are thankful for. We write down our specific thoughts for the day and put the notes into a felt tree that hangs on our wall as we countdown to Thanksgiving. That nightly tradition gives us the chance to talk about the spirit of giving and gratefulness for the season. We all have hopes for toys or gifts that may come. But if we really want to join in the spirit of the season regardless of what holidays we celebrate in the coming months, the themes are universal. They are to feel the love we share between family and friends and to celebrate the goodness we already enjoy in our lives. Read the full article.